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Eusebio Osmar Vargas (Mayo) and Dr
Gustavo Parajón
This last week has been one of great sadness for the Nuevas
Esperanzas team. Last Thursday we
tragically lost one of our team, Eusebio Osmar Vargas, known to us all as ‘Mayo’,
and on Sunday we heard of the death of the inspirational peace campaigner and
Baptist pastor Gustavo Parajón, who had been with us in León only a few weeks
ago to lead a retreat for our team. We
will miss them both.
Mayo, aged 37, had been with us since 2008 as a building
supervisor, overseeing the construction of many rainwater harvesting tanks in rural
communities in Telica and Somotillo. Softly-spoken
and considerate, he was greatly appreciated by the families he served in the
remote hillside communities around his village of San Jacinto. Mayo was conscientious and eager to learn, always
looking for opportunities to improve his skills. In January, a few weeks after starting work on
a new water project for the communities of La Unión and Nuevo Amanecer, he was
diagnosed with kidney failure. He was
recommended for dialysis and had been accepted into a programme in Managua. Unfortunately, such procedures are often feared
in rural communities like Mayo’s and his family was worried that if he went to
the capital for treatment he may never return.
Renal failure is very common in certain parts of Nicaragua and dialysis
is often associated with treatment given to terminally-ill patients in their
final days. Although he briefly accepted
the idea, having been persuaded by his concerned colleagues, he decided in the
end that he did not want to go through with the dialysis. He died amongst his family and friends last
Thursday evening.
The whole of the Nuevas Esperanzas team was present at his
funeral the next day at his rustic house in the village. Mayo’s wife, María de la Cruz, his two
daughters, aged 16 and 13, and his son, aged seven, have lost a much-loved
husband and father and our love and prayers are with them. Despite being buried within hours of his
death, many were in attendance from the remote hillside communities where he
worked with Nuevas Esperanzas. Many of
those present have Mayo to thank for the fact that they now have water to drink
at their homes instead of facing a two hour walk to collect it from the spring.
I first heard Gustavo talk at the Greenbelt Festival more
than 20 years ago, but it was not until we revisited the same festival again
last year during our time in the UK, that Jane and I got to know him
personally. Gustavo has been called many
things and his extraordinary life cannot be summed up by any of them, but the
three adjectives used in tributes paid to him since his death which seem most
appropriate to the Gustavo we knew are ‘humble’, ‘unassuming’ and ‘inspirational’. Never seeking the limelight he nonetheless
influenced an extraordinary range of people from Jimmy Carter to Bono. And yet he had time for anyone who needed an
unhurried chat over coffee as we discovered last August in a tent at Greenbelt.
At his funeral in Managua yesterday, the most moving moment for
me came when Gustavo’s granddaughter read a poem she had written about the many
pockets in her grandfather’s guayabera, a
linen shirt popular throughout Latin
America which Gustavo often wore. She
told how, just as its pockets had space for everything from his keys to
colouring pencils for children, Gustavo had space in his pockets for
everyone. Gustavo took a keen interest
in our work, visiting us in León and including us in activities of CEPAD, the organisation
which he founded. He also became a
friend to us personally as we shared ideas about music and politics and as he
played with our children. We were privileged
that he had a pocket for us and for Nuevas Esperanzas in his many-pocketed guayabera.
Mayo and Gustavo met each other in January when Gustavo came
to accompany our team on a retreat. In
his customary style, he led us through several Bible passages, verse by verse,
drawing out their contemporary meaning for the social and political situation
in which we find ourselves in Nicaragua.
In his inclusive way he asked each of our team to read a few verses from
the Bible. As it reached Mayo’s turn, I looked around anxiously for a tactful way to tell Gustavo that Mayo, having had a limited formal education, could not read.
I need have had no such concern.
Noting our discomfort and instantly diagnosing the cause, Gustavo
quickly lamented that Mayo had "forgotten his reading glasses" and with a smile
moved on to the next person. Our
reflections and discussions that day drew upon the thoughts and opinions of all
and Gustavo, a Harvard-educated doctor, blended in perfectly.
After Gustavo’s funeral service, and before moving to
Managua’s main cemetery, we unexpectedly found ourselves in the presidential
palace where Gustavo was posthumously awarded the “Rubén Darío Order of
Cultural Independence” by President Daniel Ortega and First Lady Rosario
Murillo. We left as the
Parajón-Dominguez choir, founded by Gustavo’s parents, and the Camerata Bach
orchestra performed the Hallelujah chorus.
I know this was a particular favourite of Gustavo as he and I had been
hatching a plan to set up an impromptu performance of it in the middle of a
Managua shopping mall, but I couldn’t help wondering what Gustavo would have
made of all the fuss. I believe he would
have been equally at peace at the small village cemetery in San Jacinto where
we said our final farewell to Mayo. I never
had the chance to tell Gustavo of Mayo’s untimely death. I am sure he would have been deeply saddened
and as troubled as we are to know that, with better health care and education, Mayo
may well have lived to see his young family grow up.
Gustavo was described in the Nuevo Diario newspaper as “un pilar ecuménico por la paz y por los
pobres”, which translates literally as "an ecumenical pillar for peace and for
the poor". His life’s work could be a mission
statement for Nuevas Esperanzas in so many ways. And in memory of both Gustavo and Mayo, we will
continue to offer our lives to work for peace and for the poor.
Rest in peace, Mayo and Gustavo.
Andrew Longley, 16th March 2011
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